The “cuckservative” meme has been getting more attention recently, and the attention comes from both the SJW’s and nominal conservatives who are actually neocons (neocon is really an oxymoron when you stop to think about it).
In short, a cuckservative is someone who identifies as conservative but ultimately capitulates to the left on most things, like the establishment GOP.
Many, if not most, of the Republicans are like a stock car plastered with the labels of hundreds of corporations, and as a result they have to obey their donors when coming into power. This is why, under the best of circumstances all that they do is maintain the status quo. They seldom to never undo the changes of the Democrats.
The term “cuckservative” is an allusion to cuckolding. Like a weak man who watches impotently as his wife lies with another man, and who raises the bastard children of that other man, so does the establishment GOP adopt and continue policies that did not originate with them.
For example, the Republicans SHOULD have undone the socialist changes instituted by FDR (who also created the central bank/Federal Reserve), and the socialist changes of LBJ (who bought the black vote by giving them money, even though he was deeply disdainful of blacks and called them niggers. He also referred to Jews as “cocksuckers.”). The Republicans had the legal and moral imperative to undo those things, but instead they just accept and enforce the new policies. They think the battle is to water them down, and if they can take the edge off (a little) then they have won a victory. But a loss is still a loss, even if there are a few less casualties.
The Democrats are the only party in US politics devoted to actual change. Of course, the change they want is entirely subversive, as it is grounded in Critical Theory, and inspired by such things as Alinskyite radicalism and Keyenesian economics. They want to destroy western civilization and replace it with a communism. Whether they move fast, or the move slow, they still move forward with their plans (they even call themselves “progressives”), so the battle plan for dealing with these people cannot be to slow them down, implement their policies, and hope they will eventually stop. That’s not a battle plan, it’s a surrender plan.
“Cuckservative” is not a derisive synonym for all conservatives, but rather for RINOS/establishment GOP, and more broadly, for people who call themselves conservative but adopt socialist and SJW positions.
How not to be a cuckservative in your personal life:
You might be a cuckservative if you find yourself bending over backwards to prove to leftists (and others) that you are not racist, or just mean. I say this because in order to take them seriously on this matter you must have adopted some of their narrative, and must think like them to a certain degree.
It’s no coincidence that both SJW’s and mainstream conservatives who have become aware of the term are claiming that it originated with “white supremacists.” This is an old Marxist shaming tactic. The purpose is to get you off topic from the actual argument and into a position where you have to defend yourself on a personal level.
Even if you are one of the “safest” and most “moderate” conservatives, if you live in a multiracial neighborhood, marry a black woman, adopt kids from all over the world, don’t own guns, and seriously and vocally proclaim that anyone and everyone can be an American (or whatever), the leftists will STILL call you a racist and Nazi just for being a white male who disagrees with them on anything. This is why it’s better not to waste time and energy trying to prove that you’re not “racist” or to get them to like you. It’s a complete waste of time.
The term “racist” was actually created by Karl Marx, as a means to slap a negative label on his opponents. Since then the mainstream and modern left has doctored the definition of racist to restrict it to white people, with particular negative emphasis on the white man. In their mind you are racist by default, and no amount of empirical evidence to the contrary is ever going to change their minds.
A real conservative (and right wing person in general) would dismiss such claims with a hand-waive, as they aren’t relevant to anything if you’re a law abiding citizen. It’s better to stay on topic when contending with the left. The left has to make up terms like “racist,” “homophobe,” “Islamophobe,” and “sexist,” because they can’t win in a rational discussion about policy and economics, or anything for that matter.
The key to dealing with the left is to stop showing weakness and trying to get them to like you. A true right wing person is not concerned with being liked, especially by people who hate him by default. Our concern is to be left alone, not to be loved. If you have the ability to be left alone you can get away from the people who don’t like you.
So here is what to do when the left calls you racist:
1. Say “so what?” The most they can do at this point is say, “HA! I knew it!” and then they will either go away or the discussion will return to actual policy. Either way you win.
2. You can say, “I don’t care if you think I’m racist.” This is my preferred tactic. When you do this, there is a good chance they will come back and say, “So, you admit to being racist!” You can either ignore this, or you can say, “I admit nothing, except that I don’t care what you think.” They really have no place to go from there.
3. Ignore and continue. You can ignore the accusation of racism and just deal with the questions of policy and operate within the realm of facts and logic. The leftist will continue to play up the racism accusation, but eventually they will either drop it or have an incoherent emotional melt down. Either way you win.
If they try and connect you with white supremacists you can point out that every kind of non-white supremacist supports the Democrats (or whatever happens to be the main left wing party). Obviously an actual white supremacist (which are very few and far between) is not going to vote for the leftist party (even if he espouses socialism) because most of the modern left wing movements are founded in Critical Theory, which portrays white people as villains. So really it is irrelevant how they vote, and bringing them up at all is a red herring.
The point is, there are so many things you can do rhetorically without capitulating when dealing with the left. If you don’t feel confident, and the only thing you know how to do is capitulate then you should probably keep quiet and avoid contact with leftists as much as possible. Hang out with other right wing people and (if you have the need) try to receive your validation (and maybe therapy) from them.
And coming back to the topic of cuckolding, the left is absolutely like a slutty woman who is only mediocre (at best) in terms of looks. The left even organizes slut walks. The slut knows she doesn’t have much to offer objectively, but she’s going to take as much as she can get. If you court or marry the slut then she is going to be unfaithful, and if you capitulate, condone, or excuse her behavior she is only going to disdain you and behave more brazenly. What you need to do is tell the slut you’re not interested, and if you must interact with the slut at all, then it needs to be completely on your terms. You cannot, for even one second, allow the slut to set the terms of the engagement. Take charge or avoid contact.
If you need lessons on how to be a man, then do not look to modern TV series or cinema. After the 80’s they started doing away with masculine archetypes in popular entertainment. Look to those who are further to the right than you, or who display characteristics that you admire and wish you could have for yourself.
“That’s no way to treat someone who’s telling you the truth.”